He literally attacks himself..mainly his legs and feet and gets stuck in a trance of itch, rubbing back and forth until he bleeds then cries. Harry had kindy on Friday and this has been the first day he's gone there itchy, I felt terrible leaving him. He had his little fingers In his mouth - this is his nervous sign. Sure enough I got a phone call a few hours later to say Harry had an itchy attack causing himself to bleed and he was very upset. I was going to pick him up but the teachers asked what they should do next, so I recommended his scratch me not sleeves be put on and read some books with him. They said they would ring me if they couldn't calm him down. I didn't hear from them but it didn't make me feel any better!
As I walked into kindy at home time I felt like I was going to cry seeing Harry, but the first thing he said was "I had fun today Mum" and I instantly felt better. A ten minute moment out of five hours isn't so bad! The teachers tried to put his sleeves on him but he got too upset so they were able to distract him until he settled. When I first walked into kindy a boy said to me "Harry didn't wear those things you wanted him to wear". I knew straight away he meant the sleeves! So Harry survived his first itchy kindy day and so did I! I felt guilty the entire time he was there and just wanted to pick him up and keep him close to me but knowing that he was able to settle with the teachers help has put my mind at ease..slightly!
This week I have been giving Charlie 100 kisses a day. Just something random I came up with to perhaps try and help with the guilt I carry as Charlie has missed out on so much of our attention over the last couple of years. His wee face lit up the first time I did it and the second day I gave him 60 and owed him 40 which I have him later that day. The next morning when he woke and snuggled into me in bed he said "Mum can you give me the 40 kisses you owe me". So cute! Charlie also had his first school visit this week and when I asked if he had fun he told me it wasn't fun, it was awesome. He looked very happy being there too.
Oscar's had another whole week of school. We have been late most days but that's nothing unusual for us. Oscar is like a turtle getting ready in the morning and waking between 8:30-9:00am means we don't get to school until 10:00am! He's had a happy week although his skin has had a very small flare up and it's all my fault. We tried egg yolk on Thursday night and it was obviously a fail! On a positive note the reaction wasn't immediate or full body so we can probably thank the immunos for that. Oscar had been begging me for so long to try egg again and of course I feel guilty for caving into him but it's also reassuring to know the reaction wasn't severe. We have also managed to get Oscar back in his bed again and he lasted until 4:00am the other night. That's monumental for him!
Today Oscar and Charlie had a kids duathlon. Before the race Charlie was hitting Andrew with a stick so Andrew grabbed it from him, accidentally cutting his finger with the stick. Things went down hill from there and Charlie didn't end up doing the race. While I was giving him a cuddle he asked if I would give him 100 kisses to make him feel better! Oscar did so well and didn't stop once on the run. He really enjoyed the race and wants to enter the other races in the series.
Other than Harry being itchy again we have had a pretty good week. Hopefully Harry starts to heal again next week.
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| One sore leg..... |
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| One sore foot.... |
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| One sore little boy... |
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| Oscar racing in his duathlon |
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| Charlie off to a school visit from kindy |
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