Tuesday, September 6, 2016

WALKING ON EGG SHELLS

Oscar is so much better thankfully. What a brutal few days for him. He's had it all over the last week, power chucking, going at both ends and not being able to keep it in while trying to get to the toilet! Fair to say lots of washing and cleaning too!
Oscar finally had some massive sleeps over the weekend and his skin is healing again. I've noticed that his skin gets worse a week before the v&d then starts to heal only for it to happen again.  Will be interesting to see if we can see a clearer pattern of this if it continues. We saw the paediatrician last Thursday and It was pretty much what I expected so I wasn't disappointed. He believes Oscar initially had a gastro bug and now because of that his stomach is extra sensitive and something is irritating it. No kidding! Possible causes are food, Oscar's immunos or something else. So clearly he has no idea at all. He's not worried about Oscar's lack of weight gain, and thinks we should take Oscar off the immunos incase it's causing the stomach problems. I'm not sure how he can make this statement without actually talking to our specialist first. So basically he thinks Oscar will just get better by himself and crosses his fingers as he tells me this. We are getting an ultrasound done too at some stage then a follow up appointment. We also left with a prescription for a stomach anti-inflammatory so when I can predict Oscar's going to get sick I can give it to him to help reduce the severity of the V&D. These have to be taken prior to it starting so they're a fat waste of no good. Thankfully we have a repeat prescription!
So now we watch and wait. It's a horrible feeling waiting for your child to be sick!
So all of this was relayed back to Lisa and she has another opinion. She believes Oscar may have a worm or parasite infestation or an imbalance in his gut due to too many antibiotics. All of that completely makes sense to me. Oscar is still eating when he's sick. He can't eat enough! I never thought he had a stomach bug right from the start for this reason and also the pattern of vomiting every second night. So we will now start the first step of treating this with Lisa and see if this helps! I need to do more reading on it all myself before I can completely explain it all.
Harry Is still itching his wee feet and under his chin and neck. He keeps opening the patch under his chin so it's an open wound. He then wants us to pat it, Yuck! He seems to be itchy until 9.30 in the morning then lunch time when he's tired and again at bed time. Then the night shift of itch begins.
If he didn't itch he would heal but the itch is too overbearing for him.
Today when I dropped Charlie at Kindy we were doing a puzzle together. I could see Harry through the window sitting on a digger in the sandpit. A wee girl from kindy kept bending down and was looking under his chin. I was wondering what in earth she was doing until I saw her pull Harry's sleeves up to look at his arms then back to his chin and neck then she tried to look at his back but Harry had a bodysuit on so she didn't get quite that far. Then she pulled her sleeves up and her top to investigate her stomach. I'm hoping she was feeling reassured to see her skin didn't look like Harry's!
Well Andrew survived camp last week and we got through a rough week here. Thank you so much to my Mum for coming to stay for the week to help us. Thanks for your company, yummy meals, cleaning out Oscar's sick bowl in the middle of the night, and for your love xx


1 comment:

  1. Oh my most awsome precious daughter, i wish i could have stayed a lot longer you clearly need a third person there full time. It was a busy week but i loved helping you out and loved being with you and the littlies very special time for you and i. you have to remember how far you all have come on this journey of wellness the boys have improved greatly since you started this and they are only going to get better with time. Its just you and Andrew who have to heal mentally,and that will be a gradual thing as well it will kinda be just like Harry having a bath and realising whoa the water dosn't hurt me any more and that big beautiful smile, awsome. You and Andrew show so much love and attention to your babies they are the most luckiest children to have you both for their parents. You guys ROCK!!!!!!

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